On the way to the funeral you wonder how youâ€™ll be received by the grieving. Although you are confident that your care for the deceased was sincere, professional, and adept, you still question if others will so assume. There is silence in the car. This is a trip you make alone.
You manage a bitter smile as you recall stories the patient shared in unguarded moments, behind the door of a small examining room. How he beamed with content at the thought of his grandchildren; how her eyes glowed as she remembered the view from the Eiffel Tower; how the tears and sobs and memories of a lost child wracked his otherwise impenetrable faĂ§ade. Sometimes you knew his spirit as well as you knew his medical illnesses, and often he hoped you would tend more to the former. Read more »
*This blog post was originally published at The Examining Room of Dr. Charles*